There was a call one day. The kind that no pastor or chaplain wants to get. A tragic death has occurred. In those first moments there is a flood of thoughts: Who do I need to contact? Who needs a visit? What could I possibly say to alleviate even some of the pain? What physical needs are there right now? Those and many more. Always more questions than answers.
Then comes the phone contacts and the in person visits. The responders, the grieving family, my own congregation. What hope can I bring??
2 Corinthians 1:3-4
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. 5 For as we share abundantly in Christ’s sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too.
There is hope in the name of the Lord Jesus. There is power in that name. There is forgiveness and mercy in our great God. That is what I can bring. God loves the world so much that He gave His son, Jesus to die as a perfect sacrifice for our sins. Jesus didn’t stop there, He rose from the grave to show us that death is not the end and to prove His power over the grave.
There are also some other things that I can bring: I can be a presence for someone. I can listen. I can encourage people who are hurting to share their story. Sharing helps the mind process those things which are overwhelming. Even if you just share it with yourself through journaling or diary writing.
I can pray with people, and for people. God can mend broken people. We just need to be willing to let Him.